Spice it up: 5 books to elevate your romantic life

The best tips and tricks on how to enjoy yourself and your partner like never before

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It is not easy for many people to discuss intimacy-related questions with their partner and, what’s more important — with themselves. Lack of sex education and the culture of shame led to introverted attitudes towards sex and personal desires. The good news is that now it is in your power to explore yourself and what you want! The possibilities are limitless, and one of them is books. 

These top-5 books will reveal all the secrets of pleasure, love, sex, and even personal well-being. Enjoy!

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life

This book tells everything about personal boundaries that are important in any interaction. You are not born with an understanding of what is acceptable for you and what is not. It takes effort and a little bit of time to figure that out and build your boundaries. Yet the work doesn’t stop here. You should also understand how to keep those boundaries and how not to cross someone else’s. With Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend, you will have enough power and inspiration to take this journey.

She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

Get ready, because this title is a real gem! Yes, it is the ultimate man’s guide but can be equally useful for women too. After all, you should know your body and what it likes first before getting pleasure from men. In his book, Ian Kerner shares straightforward but crucial tips on how to make your woman satisfied. The author spiced up his work with a bit of humor, making it even more comfortable and enjoyable to read. There is also a second book called He Comes Next so that both of you could send each other to seventh heaven. 

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert 

Whether you have a spouse or not, this book is worth reading. Dr. John Gottman describes 7 crucial principles in marriage and relationships that will help you solve and prevent those obstacles that can lead to heartbreaks and saying goodbye. These principles will also show you how to elevate your partnership and enjoy this brand new quality of love and warmth. 

Psychopath Free: Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People

Lately, this topic has been one of the hottest. We started paying more attention to our mental health and to people who surround us. That is why the problem of toxic relationships is so visible nowadays. Psychopath Free is everyone’s handbook on how to recognize, deal with, and get rid of psychopaths in your life. Moreover, it will show you how to become stronger and protect yourself and become mentally bulletproof so you won’t get into toxic people’s nets ever again! 

The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts

Well, what can we say? This one is classic. The main idea of this book is that there are 5 languages, and everyone has their own. So, to keep love glowing, you need to understand what language is yours. It will help you to navigate your partner and to know how to love yourself. And, of course, after reading The 5 Love Languages, you will notice new exciting details about people around you. This knowledge will make all your interactions to be on top. 

Love demands patience, work, and willingness to be better. We know that you deserve the love and intimacy that your heart desires. Go for it and enjoy all the pleasures life can offer you!

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